THIS is how important sharing your life story is …

I know it FEELS LIKE your life story doesn’t matter at times.

That nobody really cares what you’ve lived through or been through….

…but this couldn’t be further from the truth.

****YES****we want to present ourselves in clear, powerful ways, so that people can hear us,

and really take in the gift we have to offer, through the sharing of our life story.

and THE LAST THING we want to do is sound like we’re fishing for empathy or showing up in needy energy.

—but none of that matters when deciding whether to rise above this BS that’s going on in our heads, telling us our story doesn’t matter, that nobody will care. We must rise above that if we’re ever going to get the book done!!

✅ Your story DOES MATTER ✅

In my twenties I was so depressed, and confused about why I felt that way after being generally healthy and happy most of my life —then I happened across a book in which the author shared how depressed she was in the past, and how she got on the other side of that depression, to create the life she really wanted to live!!

💗this validated me at a time I felt SO ALONE and scared about what would happen in my future

💗this gave me HOPE that I could get over it, too

💥💥💥💥THAT is how important getting your life story down on paper is 💥💥💥💥

Never forget that.


🔥 Your Pilot Light Never Goes Out 🔥

🔥 Your Pilot Light Never Goes Out 🔥

Nobody taught me the thing that got me to allow myself to live *exactly* as I want to be living right now…

🔥 My pilot light taught me that🔥

I have one, you have one. It’s that spark of Creative Intelligence living inside each and every one of us, that literally never smooshes out.

✨ no matter how much you turn away from it

✨ no matter how much you forget about it

✨ no matter how much you try to numb it away, or … maybe live unaware that it’s even there.

It’s still ON.


It never stops.

So for me this mass pilot light wisdom that I couldn’t un-know came in to my heart via three words: standard of care.

I looked at the light, looked at the light, kept looking … until I KNEW that the standard I had been using to care for myself, needed an upgrade.

🙄 *not* because I needed to start getting selfish and caring about only me and forgetting everybody else.


I couldn’t stop caring if I tried.

It was something deeper this time….that had to do with THE CALLING ON MY LIFE.


That’s what I needed to care for more.

🤯 🤯 🤯 So when I took this wisdom from my pilot light, which I had been applying to everyone else in my life,

when I took that standard of care and applied it to the sacred gift I was born to serve the planet with

✅✅✅ Everything shifted ✅✅✅

Suddenly it was not just “okay” to live and do my life’s work in the most beautiful, hugest mountainous forest landscape I could find. One I could call my own, live in, enjoy every day in….

It was mandatory.



I’m a ghostwriter and finish-your-book coach so guess how I show up for the book babies I write and birth into the world with my incredible clients, when I’m living exactly where I was meant to live all along (but never quite felt good enough for until my pilot light woke me up)?

🌲🌲 vibrant

🌲🌲wildly tuned into the “river beneath the river” every good book must pulse with

🌲🌲so deeply attuned to and in trust with the energy that created all of us, I could move mountains with it


You get to have the desire that’s been secretly whispering to your heart your whole life, too.

✨✨✨✨they’re meant for you.✨✨✨

Creative Intelligence planted them inside of you, to do your best work

Your only role is to remove all the obstacles THAT WE HUMANS place in front of ourselves —-or rather, between ourselves and that pilot light soul wisdom living inside of us—obstacles that prevent us from being able to live out and actually receive, what was always our birthright.

✅ Yes it’s a journey

✅ Yes it takes at least *some* of that 3-dimensional time.

But it doesn’t take as long as you think

🤔 🤔 🤔 And NOT starting today is the *only* thing guaranteed to keep delaying, blocking and keeping you separate from the life you were born for.


PS. If part of your pilot light mission is to get your life story down on paper so it can heal the world, I have two spaces open for private 1:1 mentoring clients. Send me a message or comment below and we’ll chat about how I can support you through your process, dancing with pilot light energy the whole time of course 🔥🔥🔥 Reach out to me here:




The Butt-Kicking You Need to Finish Your Book

Remember being a kid and your parents giving you crap for something you knew deep down they were right about?

Sorry not sorry, that’s a part of book coaching with me.

I step in to kick the a@@ of those parts of you that have been stopping you from finishing your book.

❤️ all done with love, of course ❤️

…but kicking those parts of you into book-finishing alignment, indeed …

EVERYONE who has a life story to share who is not getting it down on paper needs this,

because when your brain senses you’re getting closer to finishing the book that will

📚 infuse soul-powered confidence into your life like nothing else can, just by you going through the process of actually finishing it

📚 being able to share your life experiences in an empowered way with your children, family, close friends and romantic partners, past, present and future, so they get you and y’all become closer than ever

📚 generate passive income from having your book on Amazon, that is: money flowing into your bank account while you sleep

So your very human brain 🧠 is sensing all this change coming

🛑 and it needs you to STOP writing 🛑

(your brain is hard-wired to hesitate in the face of change because it’s unknown)

🐇 🐇 🐇 so it flicks you down a rabbit hole of adding more wayward, unedited text to a ready-to-go piece….

text that would add more more more time to the wrong side of your completion date.

💥 BOOM 💥

That’s when I step in (with so much ❤️) to kick its a@@ by telling you:

No! #stopit ✋ We’re doing it this way…

✅ We’re sticking to the brilliant genius plan that we felt into, then committed to, the very first time we talked

✅ It’s a genius book plan exactly as it was meant to be!

We don’t need the other stuff, we’re not letting it distract us!

That’s how your book gets done 📚

🤦🏻‍♀️ millions of books are killed yearly following the brain’s rabbit holes.

Moral of story?

With all it’s good intentions of protecting you,

your brain mostly just gets in the way

of what your soul needs to convey in your book.

✅ And yes, hire a book coach

Send me a message to talk about this.


Just Listen to Your Soul

Just Listen To Your Soul

Listening to your soul is the SAFEST way to live, even though it feels the scariest.

Safe because when you obey, its direction, you’re never led astray.

You’re led to the right time, right place, right space…for everything.

You’re led into an all-knowing certainty, that you won’t find, anywhere else.

What’s scary is that FREE FALL feeling of actually obeying it, going against all humanoid advice around you, and listening to it …

***it feels like you’re listening BLINDLY or something, but you’re not. It’s your soul!!!

Just because you can’t “see” it with your human vision, doesn’t mean it isn’t the wisest, most powerful, sharpest *all-seeing* mechanism available to you!

It’s when you DON’T LISTEN that you get into all kinds of mischief.

Things take longer, they’re harder, less fun.

Moral of story?

No matter which way you shake your stick at it, we gotta go through “scary” no matter what.

One of them leads you where you want to go, and the other leads you where you don’t want to go.

So listen.

Choose the kind of scary that leads you somewhere safe and expansive at the same time… somewhere you actually want to be.