From Caged To Free

Women who’ve been through trauma often choose the cage….I know because I was one of them. It felt safer there. I didn’t know how to manage the *one thing* that comes with the freedom of cageless life, that, in a world of “you can have it all” memes, very few people are talking about: *PRESSURE*Continue reading “From Caged To Free”

Want to feel JOY? Positive affirmations are not the answer.

Trying to “be positive” 24/7 is exactly like drinking, drugging, gambling, overeating or any other addiction. Too many humans are out there saying “you’ve just got to be more positive” or “your mindset is not in the right place”—which leads to hiding, stuffing, numbing, avoiding or pretending negative emotions don’t exist altogether. —YET, how theContinue reading “Want to feel JOY? Positive affirmations are not the answer.”

JUST BEING YOU … with money in your bank account!

I’ve always loved “JUST BE YOU” messages … but they also really confused me, and pissed me off. I mean, I loved BEING ME, buuuuuutttttt… the only reason i was reading other people’s stuff online, was because I needed to be a me *WHO MADE MONEY* too! So telling me to “just be me” andContinue reading “JUST BEING YOU … with money in your bank account!”

A Mic Drop From the Universe

I was shocked to see what I was doing to myself, before I finally reached the place where I had cleared up enough inner stuff to publish my memoir. It was a “look up to the sky, talk to the Universe” moment: 🤷🏻‍♀️ You mean to tell me, that my struggle bus with money hadContinue reading “A Mic Drop From the Universe”

This girl … IS YOU

This girl weighed 300 pounds back in 2004. This girl was given the wrong medication, ate her way through pounds and pounds of trauma, money stress, messed up relationship stress, living-the-wrong-life stress. This girl persisted through it all—her body’s not perfect now, but she moved heavy anvils of emotional stress living inside her aside, toContinue reading “This girl … IS YOU”

When You Want to Share Your Life Story So Bad BUT….

I wanted to share my personal life story with the world *so bad* but couldn’t understand whyI just didn’t JUST DO IT🤷🏻‍♀️😕🤷🏻‍♀️ My desire to share was literally fire hot 🔥 🔥 🔥 I wanted it more than anything…. I KNEW I was meant for it … 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just couldn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️ or I justContinue reading “When You Want to Share Your Life Story So Bad BUT….”

Calling Out This BS for my Life Story Superstars …

If you know you’re going to get your life story down into a book,  everything —and I do mean EVERYTHING— *everything* you’re thinking about that has you “waiting” is total and utter complete B.S. Your soul has spoken. Period. You know you’ve been called. You know this is meant for you. It’s been nudging youContinue reading “Calling Out This BS for my Life Story Superstars …”

🔥 Your Pilot Light Never Goes Out 🔥

🔥 Your Pilot Light Never Goes Out 🔥 Nobody taught me the thing that got me to allow myself to live *exactly* as I want to be living right now… 🔥 My pilot light taught me that🔥 I have one, you have one. It’s that spark of Creative Intelligence living inside each and every oneContinue reading “🔥 Your Pilot Light Never Goes Out 🔥”